Most people have strong feelings about anal intercourse, falling squarely into the “love” or “hate” category. Even if they secretly wish they were one of the “lucky” few who like anal sex, many men and women claim they are too scared to attempt it again after their first experience. If there is no pain associated with an experience, then it was likely quite pleasurable for them, and vice versa.

A lot of individuals will hurt when they’re the target of anal intercourse, but like they say, practice makes perfect.

Preparing for anal sex

Anal sex entails more than simply penetrating the anal space with the penile end. A partner’s tongue (also known as “rimming”), sex toys, or fingers can all be used in anal play. Which position do you think will suit you best? As a first advice, try it out on your own to see what works.

Try things out on your own

Learning the sense of anal sensation from Eveline Dellai’s anal videos is beneficial whether you’re going to be the one penetrating or the one receiving. If you’re just starting with anal sex, this will be quite helpful.

You can begin to explore by sliding one or two fingers inside, massaging the region surrounding your anus, and playing with pressure with a lubricated finger. Your anal muscle, also known as the sphincter, can be felt, so you may experiment with relaxing, constricting, and pleasuring it.

Sex toys

When it comes to anal play, there are plenty of sex toys that have flared bases for safety. Anal beads, vibrators, and butt plugs are a few items that might relax.

Toys like dildos and strap-ons are specifically made for the penetrative partner. You and your partner are free to explore whatever seems right to you since there is no shortage of alternatives.

But if you’re thinking of getting an anal sex toy that isn’t specifically made for that purpose, you should probably be careful. People sometimes end up in emergency rooms due to “rectal foreign bodies”—i.e., common household objects stuck in the anus that the patient is unable to remove on their own.

Communicate with your companion

One should never attempt to persuade or force their spouse into having anal sex; it should be something that both partners are truly interested in and comfortable with. Always keep in mind that you may attempt anal sex and quit at any moment if you’re apprehensive about it.

While what you have to say may be formal, the language you use when checking in does not have to be extremely formal especially when talking to your spouse. Before anal intercourse, it is advisable to sit down and laugh about it while key objectives, goals, expectations, and comfort level are being discussed. To practice, one can check Mona Azar’s videos. Also, it is advisable to make use of condoms as a topic that can be discussed in the aspect of being in a new relationship.

Talking about the roles of the man and woman having anal sex is one discussion to decide who would be on the top and who is on the bottom or who may like the idea of a change now and then. Make sure you talk about your respective comfort zones if you’ll both be receiving at some time.

Do some “anal training”

Learning to relax their anal sphincter in this way is totally optional, but it may be a lot of joy for a bottom partner. Later on, while engaging in anal intercourse, accepting a penis or strap-on should be less of a chore and more of a pleasure.

This may be done with your fingertips (i.e., begin with one finger, breathe deeply, and then add more) or with specialized sex devices.

The butt plug serves as the primary plaything for this. Its tapering form and flared base are hallmarks of this glass or silicon object. Another option is to invest in an anal trainer set that has many plugs of progressively larger sizes.

Collect all of your materials

For anal intercourse, all you need is a generous supply of lubricant and condoms; no further equipment is necessary. Getting toys is optional, but certainly not required.

When engaging in anal intercourse, condoms play a crucial role. Anal intercourse using a condom can keep you safe from sexually transmitted infections.

Lube also plays an important role. You should apply generous amounts of lubricant to the rectum as it does not produce its own natural lubricant as the vagina does. A lubrication based on silicone or water will do the trick. Even more lubes are available with anal play in mind.

Perform some anal hygiene

Sex is dirty, and it’s not out of the ordinary for a little feces to come up during anal sex. Neither shame nor embarrassment should be felt because this is typical and expected.

Even so, if you’re going to be the bottom partner, it’s crucial to practice excellent fundamental anal hygiene so you can concentrate on having fun instead of worrying about becoming dirty. Being courteous to your partner is also important.

Using unscented baby wipes or taking a long, careful shower while paying special attention to the anus are two excellent, simple methods for cleaning up. An extra perk of taking a shower together before getting intimate is that it may set the stage for some great foreplay.

Begin with anal foreplay

Lube and foreplay are your finest allies when it comes to having pleasurable anal sex. The point of engaging in any quantity of physical contact, masturbation, or kissing with your partner is to assist the lower partner in relaxing the anal sphincter muscle.

You shouldn’t see this as an inconvenience! Anal stimulation is enough to cause an orgasmic response in many people since the anus is dense with nerve endings.

Starting with a shallow insert with a greased finger just like one can see in Kiere videos and gradually working your way deeper can be an option to consider. A second finger can be inserted and used as a conduit to apply additional lubricant. In addition, sex toys, if available, can be utilized. Having fun while lubricating and relaxing the anal muscles is the primary objective.

Starting softly and progressively entering when your bottom partner is ready is the same strategy you may use when moving on to anal sex once you’re warmed up.

Summary 

Even for those who come to appreciate it, the feeling of anal intercourse might be strange or unpleasant at first.

Anal sex should only be performed with enthusiastic permission from both partners, and neither partner should feel forced or coerced to engage in it.

Anal sex may be enjoyable for many individuals regardless of gender as long as it is approached with care, there is ample communication, and everyone knows how to have safe sex.