After months of hard work, you have finally earned a date with the girl of your dreams. So, what is next? One thing is for sure, if you want a second date, you will need to be impressive. How is this possible? Well, you will need to start with a strategy, one that will guarantee a positive payoff. Depending on your girl’s expectations, you may be able to pull this off fairly easily. If she sets her expectations too high, you may not have a leg to stand on. In the meantime, you can take advantage of the tips provided in the article below.
Be the Planner
Women have progressed from what they once were. Heck, last term the United States had a woman run for president if this tells you anything. Gone are the days of women keeping to themselves and not participating in what are supposed to be manly duties. It is even common and acceptable for women to pay for their halves of the date these dates. While there is nothing wrong with this and you should always be about empowering the opposite sex, there is nothing more gratifying to a woman than a man that knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to go for it.
It has to do with confidence and planning out the entire date will show that you are confident in your decisions and are willing to follow them through. Just make sure you take the time to choose something universal but pleasing at the same time.
You must be strategic or fail miserably. A strategic plan right from the get-go will secure you a second date. How can you be strategic in this case? There are several ways, one, you must think outside the box, second, you must look at the big picture, and third, you must speak the right language. Being strategic may not be easy as you may at first thought. But, it isn’t impossible by no means.
Engage In Conversation
It is a fact that a first date can go awry very early on. This could be related to various issues, including poor communication, improper behavior, and lackluster performance. Now, no one is going to recommend putting on an outlandish performance. But, they will recommend engaging conversation. You want her to be impressed right from the get-go. And, you can do just that by communicating with confidence. Believe it or not, women can pick a confident man out of a room full of men with no confidence.
Be sure to stay away from unsavory topics like Big Tits VR and leave your phone in the car. So, there are no distractions to interfere with your plans.
Be Laid Back
Speaking of confidence, this is one of the things that brings ease along with the date. When you are truly confident in your decisions and your environment, you will feel more laid back. Of course, exuding this kind of confidence is much harder than one would imagine and this is why you have to approach the situation in a transcendental way. Think of it like you are buying a car. You’re the one doing the shopping and it is up to you to make the final decision. The salesman (the girl) is just showing you the goods. You don’t need to feel pressured to impress the salesman showing you around.
One of the best ways to exude this kind of confidence is by not hold back. Don’t be shy or embarrassed about your weirdness or quirks. Everyone has them and you should own yours. What’s the worst that’s going to happen? She’s not going to lack you? Nothing impresses like confidence and with these first two tips, you’ll be well on your way.